From time to time we don’t always agree with the way
someone treats us. Family disagreements over the
division of farm assests can divide the unity of the
once cohesive family. Neighbors dispute of fences and
boundaries can create hard feelings for years. Even
business or government decisions can leave a producer
with limited opportunities to resolve issues affecting
his farm.
There may be a formal method for dealing with the
matter, which is the court system. But, before you seek
this solution, we offer a few suggestions below to avoid
the time, cost and emotion of going to court.
Direct negotiation: Almost always the best way to
start resolving matters quickly and easily.
Non-adversarial: Try to avoid seeing the other
person as an adversary. Being aggressive only
invites similar hostility.
Reasonableness: You are more likely to achieve a
solution when you stay calm and polite.
Cooperation: Make it clear that you are asking
the other person to help you solve the problem.
Be honest: Exaggerating your complaint only
raises doubts about your credibility.
If a dispute goes to court, seek legal counsel since
there are strict rules regarding the manner in which the
dispute will be resolved.
Dealing with disputes Mike
Irvin